How to Inform Children About an Impending Divorce

  1. First, make sure that you are in control of your own emotions, and can convey information in a reasonable manner.
  2. Second, don’t display anger, fear, disappointment, blame or hurt.
  3. Third, parents should agree on when and where this conversation will take place.
  4. Fourth, if possible, parents should agree on their explanation as to why they are getting divorced. If parents are unable to agree, they should seek advice from a qualified professional and agree to follow this advice.
  5. Fifth, all of your children should be informed of the decision at the same time.
  6. Sixth, do not give detailed information about the reasons for the divorce (eg. money problems, affairs, etc.)
  7. Seventh, describe how the divorce will affect the children. Dedicate a place in each the parent’s homes that belongs to the children.
  8. Eighth, solicit your children’s input.
  9. Ninth, make sure that your children know that they are not responsible for the divorce.
  10. Tenth, assure your children of your love for them, and give them permission to love both of their parents.
Client Reviews
★★★★★
"I had an excellent experience with Mr. Lane. I went through a very difficult divorce and he was excellent. He was always available and always treated me like I was his most important client. I would and do recommend him to anyone who needs a lawyer specializing in divorce." Dr. Mark F.
★★★★★
"Matt Lane truly cares about his clients. He brings his extensive knowledge, years of experience, and meticulous attention to detail to every case. He fights for his clients in a strategic, thoughtful, and cost-effective manner. By the end of my case, we were not just attorney and client, we became and remain friends." Jim B.
★★★★★
"I hired Matthew Lane for a relocation (out of state) and time-sharing case. Mr. Lane went above and beyond my expectations. He knew exactly what needed to be done. Mr. Lane is extremely intelligent and I cannot imagine having someone else represent me… He is truly one of the best and works extremely hard. I am very happy I have Mr. Lane as my attorney." Alisa H.
AVVO 10
Justia Lawyer Rating
Who's Who In American Law
US News
Google 5 Star Review
FL Bar Family Law Section
Palm Beach County Bar